“As I forgive, so am I forgiven.” Thank you for the reminder Elli Richter 💫
No matter what – it always takes two to tango; you are always 50% responsible for the creation and maintenance of any dynamic you find yourself repeatedly stuck in. “Resenting others is essentially blaming them for crossing boundaries that we didn’t effectively set or enforce.” If you’re wanting to plead with another to be better, to be different, to love you enough to abide by your needs and boundaries and they aren’t – it’s you pleading with yourself, to love and respect you enough to set and enforce those lines. If exposure to something repeatedly leaves you feeling hurt and damaged, stop the exposure, to the best of your ability.
Let go. Forgive. Be forgiven. Set yourself free.